Comments on: How To Be An Effective Loser http://lancehaun.com/how-to-be-an-effective-loser/ Life between the brackets Wed, 08 Feb 2012 14:42:02 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Bob1 http://lancehaun.com/how-to-be-an-effective-loser/#comment-866 Bob1 Wed, 15 Oct 2008 23:50:01 +0000 http://www.yourhrguy.com/?p=410#comment-866 we're all losers, but usually at the heart of losing is the lying along the way that got you there. We're all frauds in heart and we're all very sensitive beings to criticism...we're good at negative self-talk to the core. We self-fulfill to the level of mediocrity by the way we handle disappointments life dishes out or other humans dish out. Even if we're more positive than the other guy, it's fleeting and disappointment accumulates. We hit our own disappointment threshold and then we relent. We succumb to, "Who are you fooling? Yourself? Loser! Who are you kidding?" They loser cycle continues...the old vicious cycle starts anew. Spoken like a true loser, don't you think? we’re all losers, but usually at the heart of losing is the lying along the way that got you there. We’re all frauds in heart and we’re all very sensitive beings to criticism…we’re good at negative self-talk to the core. We self-fulfill to the level of mediocrity by the way we handle disappointments life dishes out or other humans dish out. Even if we’re more positive than the other guy, it’s fleeting and disappointment accumulates. We hit our own disappointment threshold and then we relent. We succumb to, “Who are you fooling? Yourself? Loser! Who are you kidding?” They loser cycle continues…the old vicious cycle starts anew. Spoken like a true loser, don’t you think?

]]> By: monina http://lancehaun.com/how-to-be-an-effective-loser/#comment-865 monina Tue, 23 Sep 2008 03:12:13 +0000 http://www.yourhrguy.com/?p=410#comment-865 Nobody really wants to be a loser, that's why we have to move on. Learn from our mistakes and make it better next time. Nobody really wants to be a loser, that’s why we have to move on. Learn from our mistakes and make it better next time.

]]> By: Eric Antariksa http://lancehaun.com/how-to-be-an-effective-loser/#comment-864 Eric Antariksa Sun, 21 Sep 2008 06:54:46 +0000 http://www.yourhrguy.com/?p=410#comment-864 Being a loser in one thing does not mean we are loser in everything else. So, yes, stay positive. Being a loser in one thing does not mean we are loser in everything else. So, yes, stay positive.

]]> By: Lance Haun http://lancehaun.com/how-to-be-an-effective-loser/#comment-862 Lance Haun Fri, 19 Sep 2008 15:00:00 +0000 http://www.yourhrguy.com/?p=410#comment-862 Make a country song and sell it for millions. I would call it "Lost in Vantucky." I hope you're not talking about yourself though. I think you've had some big wins and more will come your way. Marie said to stay positive, I think that helps. Make a country song and sell it for millions. I would call it “Lost in Vantucky.”

I hope you’re not talking about yourself though. I think you’ve had some big wins and more will come your way. Marie said to stay positive, I think that helps.

]]> By: Jenn Barnes / HR Wench http://lancehaun.com/how-to-be-an-effective-loser/#comment-861 Jenn Barnes / HR Wench Fri, 19 Sep 2008 06:24:23 +0000 http://www.yourhrguy.com/?p=410#comment-861 What if you're on a major losing streak and your life is starting to look like fodder for a country song? What if you’re on a major losing streak and your life is starting to look like fodder for a country song?

]]> By: Marie http://lancehaun.com/how-to-be-an-effective-loser/#comment-863 Marie Thu, 18 Sep 2008 20:41:18 +0000 http://www.yourhrguy.com/?p=410#comment-863 Stay positive - just because you lost this time doesn't mean you can't win next time. Keep a positive outlook and you'll be able to pull yourself out of a losing situation with confidence. Stay positive – just because you lost this time doesn’t mean you can’t win next time.

Keep a positive outlook and you’ll be able to pull yourself out of a losing situation with confidence.

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